Some observations of the simple rules of social karma:
Judgment begets judgment.
Cheerleading begets cheerleading.
If you ever wonder why you feel judged and alone, it’s likely that you spend a lot of time passing judgement.
If you ever wonder why you don’t have more cheerleaders, it’s likely because you aren’t cheering on others enough (or in some cases because you are with people who are only capable of playing the role of judge).
What you give is usually what you get back.